I agree with you. And I think, if more people were comfortable with boundaries in general, the whole process would get easier. We'd be more used to saying it, and to hearing/respecting it.
Maybe we'd even learn to recognize that "No" isn't a personal insult or attack.
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Date: 2012-06-11 02:06 pm (UTC)Maybe we'd even learn to recognize that "No" isn't a personal insult or attack.